In order for a guy to have a sexual interest in the opposite sex, it is not at all necessary to create a romantic environment with candles. It can happen anywhere, anytime. Erotic backgrounds may appear unexpectedly during work, forest walks, or casual conversation.
To the question, "How do you understand that a man is excited? " - every girl confidently answers that this is noticeable during an erection. In fact, not everything is as primitive as it seems. Psychologists confirm that the woman's desire to possess betrays the man's appearance, facial expression, and exercise. Speech can only convey the information that a person intends to convey to others, and the face and body will give out the true feelings and state of the excited person.
In order to understand that one is excited, there are certain signs.
The surest and most accurate way to check if a guy is horny is by looking at his pants under his waist, or better yet, by touching his hand.
An erection is the dominant sign of a man’s sexual arousal. At the time the blood rushes to the head of the penis, the male organ hardens. In this case, the internal pressure may coincide with the arterial pressure, which allows the organ to change shape and size.
There are cases where an erection does not occur with emotional sexual arousal. It is a sign of vascular disease, diabetes, mental anxiety or stress.
Non-verbal cues
There are a number of non-verbal body signs that tell a person’s sexual condition better than any word.
- During the conversation, the guy inadvertently gets closer to the subject of his attention. And gradually the distance between the bodies inevitably decreases. This is followed by a light touch of the hand and foot. This gesture does not involve active action, it will be almost invisible. But that’s how a new love story can begin.
- If there is a woman nearby, the man wants to touch you, hug her. But it happens that circumstances don’t allow it and he tries to occupy his hands: his buttons and unbutton his collar, fiddles with a tie, twists the button, smoothes and ruffles his hair, pulls on his coat. The young man wants his partner to know about it with enough excitement. A man can be excited when he touches his hands or other parts of his body, straightens a lady’s hair, looking for a mutual look while literally leaning close. So don’t be surprised when an outwardly calm gentleman suddenly starts actively helping out of the car or serving a coat. Everything is understandable: pleasant gestures of participation are another way to touch the subject of interest. When sexual arousal comes, the guy automatically starts stroking and rotating the object in his hand that is cylindrical. Let the pen, glass, etc. This is no longer a signal but a decisive appeal.
Courtship stage
When a man expresses sexual sympathy for a woman, he is definitely signaling his behavior. If the meeting takes place in a restaurant, he fills a glass of wine, offers a snack, and helps him sit in a chair and get up. All of this is due not only to a good upbringing, but his actions will be guided by the instinct of the masculine principle — to give him an additional opportunity to touch the object of his desire. The expression of concern suggests that the young man is planning a breakfast together.
Man's poses
Noticing a sexually interesting girl, the internal switch of the female heart conqueror switches to the "alpha male" position. And here begin movements that reveal a person’s interest: pulling up the abdomen quickly, adjusting the backrest (a good physical shape is a pinch), turning the shoulders, sitting, lifting the legs. Such a gesture seems to suggest that there is something to offer a woman.
In addition, before the subject of his adoration, the guy tries to appear in a favorable light. It straightens, draws its stomach, straightens its chest.
Sometimes signs of initial excitement can be read by touching the face (nose, chin, ears). Women also have such gestures. They betray the excitement. And touching or licking the lips is a clear indication of the sexual overtones of these manipulations.
Physical reactions
- Fast breathing, enlarged pupils, opening lips, a slightly hoarse voice - this is a conditional sign that a person’s thoughts are working in a certain direction.
- The slightly dilated nostrils seem to catch the female’s scent, indicating obvious sympathy.
- At the same time, thirst appears, which is accompanied by an increase in body temperature.
- Visible blush on his face.
- Touching the chin, nose, ears. According to psychologists, by stimulating these zones, the guy tries to hide reflex nervousness and autoerotic symptoms. When aroused, the facial skin will be very sensitive to touch.
- When a person is captivated by passion, he loses control of his gaze and speech. With a blurred look, blushing and pale, even the healthiest guy starts to carry such nonsense that a girl can doubt her suitability. Simple - at this time, information is being processed that doesn’t get into the brain at all.
- A shift in the topic of conversation towards intimacy will also be a sign of excitement. When discussing everyday and everyday things, an erotic association can develop in him.
Every person is excited by the visual image. In order for a woman not to have to constantly monitor her erection and pay attention to her partner’s breathing, fearing she won’t miss a moment of initial excitement, it’s worth learning to take an interest in the man and get her attention.
Finally, a little advice - do not turn off the lights during love games, as a young man who does not see a girl will not be able to get excited enough and will not know if he is ready for sexual exploitation.